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Snowy Days Give Life Perspective

January 11

I’m sitting here with no place to go. Our area had almost a foot of snow, which is unusual. It closed down the city. My husband loves the free days off. I’m enjoying his free time, as well, but this snow doesn’t look like it’s going anywhere soon. We live over a mountain, so the hubs may be home bound a couple more days. I predict a bout of cabin fever!

It makes me wonder what retirement will be like. 24/7 is a lot of quality time. What’s the old saying? “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” ;-) I find the older I get, the more territorial I get. I need my space and my routine. So does he. We’ve always liked the days we’re both home “puttering” separately, but could get a hug or share a sandwich at our leisure. That’s the delight of a long friendship/marriage.

What a month December was. Our Christmas felt like “It’s a Wonderful Life.” We always ring in Christmas a week before with my husband’s birthday. This year he celebrated his 60th with a 60′s Rock Star Party. We all dressed up like 60′s rock stars (or at least we tried!) and sang many great oldies from our youth. Who doesn’t love 60′s music? Mike loved both the music and the party, and so did we.

Our daughters, sons-in-law, and granddaughters were home for Christmas. We celebrated Christmas Eve outside with our church family. We sang hymns in the frosty weather, listened to the Christmas story, and watched an awesome fireworks display. When we looked out the window Christmas morning, everything had turned white, due to an unexpected snow. Big, beautiful snowflakes fell softly all Christmas day. It felt magical, like we were part of an amazing snow globe.

The happy events were just what we needed following December’s rantings and ravings from Congress and the many negative news reports from around the world. Life shouldn’t be this chaotic and cruel. Christmas reminded us that there’s still beauty in the world, and lots of good, decent people who love God and our country. We are blessed, in America, no matter the circumstances.

“Do not be afraid!  Stand firm; you will see deliverance. The Lord will fight for you; you need only be still.”

I trust the Lord. How about you?

©2011 BLN

Grandchildren and aging go hand in hand!

September 28

About a month ago, my youngest daughter delivered our 4th granddaughter. Her name is Juliana (Juli-ah-na) Nicole. Her name suits her well, because she’s a jewel of a baby. Juliana has smiled from day one. I don’t care what you say, it’s NOT just gas. :)

Anyone who’s become a grandparent knows there’s no relationship like the one with grandchildren. Grandparents fall insanely in love. Grandchildren are wonderful at reciprocating that love. Since aging and grandchildren go hand in hand, I don’t mind aging. What an incredible stage of life.

And now, a drum roll, please. Here’s Juliana!

Tex, the dog, is the only boy in the family. He’s already protective of his little “sis,” though he’s jealous of her, too. Typical, whether human or canine!

Juliana not only has loving parents and adoring grandparents, she also has cousins who are anxious to show her the ropes! Here’s a picture of her big girl cousins: Kristen, Elizabeth, and Presley Kate.

We grandparents have so much to be thankful for. I’d love to hear about your grandchildren. Feel free to comment.

On another note~

I am thrilled that the scorching days of summer have passed, and that fall is showing its beautiful, cool self. The leaves are just beginning to turn, but already are stunning. Every day brings more beauty.

It’s time for me to go get my hair colored and cut, so I’ll close for today. I’m reading Tris Hussey’s book, Create Your Own Blog. It’s inspiring. I’ll be back tomorrow! I know that’s hard to believe. I’ll have to earn your trust!

©2010 BLN

I turned 58 in Feb/10. I’ve been married since I was 19, to the same man who still thrills me. We have 3 beautiful daughters, 3 adorable granddaughters, and a 4th grandchild due in August, 2010.

My husband and I both attended college after marriage. He graduated in Texas, I graduated 10 years later in Arizona.
My love has always been writing, but my school didn’t have a journalism department, so I majored in Secondary Education with a concentration in English and history. I absolutely adored going back to college; everyday was an adventure. One time, I almost missing a Shakespeare examination, because I was studying at the library and became so involved in a play that I lost track of time!

I briefly taught high school English, taught adult education, and then moved into social work. In my spare time, I read and wrote. A couple years ago, my husband asked me to quit a dead-end-job and do what I love to do. I took him up on it and write as much as possible.

So here I am nearly 60-years-old! It’s shocking to be so much older than I feel. I’ve become fascinated with the whole subject of aging and the fact that no one escapes its clutches.

This blog isn’t intended to be a scientific study of aging, or a place to get aging related information, such as “Overcoming the Terrors of the Medicare System.” The purpose of this blog is more personal–a conversation, of sorts, between friends–albeit “aging friends!” I want to embrace this time of life and enjoy it as best I can. Writing positively about my life as I age gives perspective to the stage of life so many of us dread.